The group is called Fantasies and Realities, and it’s the brain child of my dear friend, Paulina Sygulska, and her partner in crime, Harriet Waley-Cohen. And if you are a fan of tasteful kink, as they are, this special event on Wednesday 29 of July at Buddha Bar in London, Knightsbridge, is for you.
The event will highlight a stunning Shibari bondage demo and two talks on sexual awakening from male and female perspective. All of this sensual pleasure will be offered up with scrumptious oriental cuisine at one of the hottest restaurants in town, and topped off with burlesque and anonymous fantasy sharing to wrap up the night. What more could an intellectual pervert ask for?! 😉
Brought to you by Fantasies and Realities in collaboration with the award winning Buddha Bar, this is promising to be a most delicious night, a true feast for all the senses. At just £5 booking fee plus you buy your own dinner on the night (from as low as £30 per three course meal) it’s a STEAL and from what Paulina and Harriet tell me, those already on the guest list are so excited they can barely keep their knickers on 😉
Both couples and singles and all sexual orientations welcome. Book your place: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/shibari-demonstration-erotica-talks-oriental-dining-experience-tickets-17692107570
I have to admit, I was totally intrigued by a group that would put together such a delicious evening, so I asked Paulina and Harriet to tell me a little mor about Fantasies & Realities, and here’s what Harriet had to say:
‘Fantasies & Realities was created after the first time that I gave a talk on using fantasy and erotica to spice up your sex life and deepen intimacy. Afterwards, many women approached me and said how much they wished that there was a safe, intimate and fun space for women to talk about their sexual desires, secret fantasies and experiences. The group was born and, since then, F&R has met monthly for our members to talk, share and enable each of us to open up fully to our inner fantasy worlds and desires.
‘I absolutely love getting together with everyone; each meet up something often surprising and totally wonderful will come out of it – whether its discovering that one member is obsessed with the fantasy of secretly watching others make love, or that one woman was asked on a first date if she’d indulge his fantasy of putting custard in her pants (yes, really!), or the walking in heels workshop where we all got to perfect our bedroom stiletto wiggle. It’s magical and beautiful and fun, not to mention how powerful it feels that we are all owning our sexuality and what that means for each of us so much more.’
If you’re in the London area or want to make plans to be on the 29th of July, this is an event you won’t want to miss, a great opportunity to learn something new and share with like-minded people. Don’t miss the fun.
If you want to know more about Fantasies and Realities and read some of the fantasies check out www.fantasiesrealities.tumblr.